If You Knew How It Ends, Would You Live Differently? What the Dying Taught Me About Living​

During my days as a bedside registered nurse, there was no other area that had as much of an impact on me as hospice. It may seem obvious why; I was dealing with dying humans daily. And as sad as that is, and as emotionally draining it can be on any given day, the impact on me was mostly positive and changed the way I approached everything. I’ve spoken about this being a pivotal point in my life, as it led me toward my current holistic health practice, but I never really talked about it this way: how it shaped how I want to live the next chapter of my life. ​

A few days before sitting down to write this, I got a call from a good friend. She had lost someone in her family to alcoholism, and we got to talking about how when people know they are doing something to their body (and life)  that is causing them such great harm and ill health, even killing them, they will keep doing it despite the “knowing”. What does it take for someone to change and turn things around for themselves to reach for their highest potential and live with purpose while on this earth?

During my years as a bedside nurse, and even as a young nurse’s assistant before that, death was not unfamiliar to me; it was the experiences in different areas that I worked that made the experience different. No area shaped me the way working in hospice did. Sure, it was sad, but I witnessed life lessons, stories, and sometimes beautiful moments that I was honored to be part of. One story that I never heard was that they wished they'd worked harder, achieved more, or bought x, y, z. The story I DID hear was some version of: ​

“I wish I took more vacations”

“I wish I had taken better care of myself”

“I wish I had told them when I had a chance”

“I wish I didn’t sweat the small stuff”

“I wish I hadn’t missed my calling and followed my heart’s path”

“I wish I hadn’t been afraid and just did the thing, no matter what other people would think”​

Like my friend’s family member, I believe most people know what they are doing to themselves and, on some level, know they need to make a change, but while they’re deep “in it,” it's hard to see outside of “it”. I also believe that knowing isn’t the missing piece. We have more information at our fingertips than any generation before, so lack of information isn’t the problem. Becoming aware and then turning the knowing into doing is the missing piece and the most challenging one. ​

The numbness I didn’t know I was carrying.​

Before working in hospice, I was an  ICU nurse for many years. When people died in the ICU, after a while, there was an element of detachment. Not because you didn’t care, but because that coping mechanism was the culture. Nine times out of ten, we were trying to save those who were close to death, and this looked much more clinical, and even sometimes traumatic. Code after code, and day after day, there’s a sense of numbness that sets in because the work leaves little space for anything else. Don’t feel; move on to the next room. That’s how you got through the shift, and that’s how I began functioning outside of my work. ​

I hadn’t realized how much that numbness had settled in for a few years, so I too became unaware that my work and lifestyle were making me ill, both physically and mentally.  Numbness led to not being able to cry. Detachment, anxiety, depression, insomnia- they all showed up for me, but I had to crash and burn before I took action.

If you had asked me at the time, I would have said, “I’m fine.” I couldn’t express what was actually happening. I was a healthcare professional who could assess others and match the physiology to their stress and burnout, but I didn’t readily see it in myself. If I couldn’t see it in myself, how can one without my training see it in themselves?

The Shift I Didn’t See Coming.

It wasn't until I left the ICU that I really understood what I was carrying during that time. It was full-on burnout, and I needed something different. I never regretted my time in critical care; in fact, I learned more than I could have imagined, but my passion for my work was gone. I was told by a dear friend that I would make a great hospice nurse, so there I went; caring for people at the end of life and hanging on to my own, with what seemed like a thread.

I need to talk about the people who work in hospice for a moment. They are unlike any other group of people that I have worked with, or have even been a part of. First of all, they hug- a lot. My mentor, Michelle, greeted me with a hug my first day and said, “You’re not much of a hugger, are you? You will be.” She was right, but I quickly learned that a hand held at the right moment, or a hug with a family member while they watched their loved one slip away, was worth more than you could offer in that moment. And the staff needed it too. We had a tacit understanding, and we knew when one of us needed that embrace, or that moment of reset after a heavy day. My hope for humanity was restored working with this compassionate group of people. ​

Death; it changes a person. Again, I was no stranger to being around it, but this was different. I even began noticing the beauty in it. I became a part of people’s story, and it was an honor to bear witness to some of the most precious and vulnerable experiences in other humans’ stories.​

Death is part of one’s story. Some deaths are peaceful. Some are not. The hardest ones are those that are young, and especially those that could have been prevented. I’ve witnessed illness and unfortunate traumas in both the young and the old.

One thing is for certain: we all hold this chapter in our own story. That’s the thing about death: we all share this experience; we just don’t talk about it. There is no discrimination. No matter your socioeconomic status, gender, race, sexual orientation, whether you’re a criminal, hero, parent, older adult, or child, we ALL will experience death, AND we have no idea when! It can be today. It can be 50 years from now, but it will inevitably happen. ​

What It Actually Takes

So what does it take for someone actually to change?

I don’t have that answer for you; I wish I did, but I don't think anyone has. Not your doctor or your therapists. Not even someone like me who has witnessed many endings. But one thing I noticed and learned through these experiences is that the people who seemed most at peace in their final chapter weren’t the ones who had checked all the boxes. It was the ones who were honest with themselves at some point and tapped into what mattered most to them. They got honest about the relationships they'd let go stale, answered their calling, or stopped putting off becoming the version of themselves they kept promising to become "someday." Their peace didn't come from a perfect life; it came from an honest one.

Even when habits and experiences aren’t serving us, we stay. It's like a bad relationship; we know that it might be dysfunctional, or maybe even dangerous. Still, people stay there because they feel loved. They feel like they belong. They may even feel safe in an unsafe situation because anywhere else is unfamiliar, and that brings fear and danger. In our minds, we choose the familiar, which, to us, is safe. Habits are no different. It's safe and comfortable, and change is hard, uncomfortable, and unsafe.

By the end of this article, I decided to reframe my original question from “would you live differently?” to: what's it going to take for you to live differently?” Not for people who won’t even remember you when you're gone, but for yourself. And if showing up for yourself isn’t enough (because many of us are better at showing up for others), then is it for the people that truly matter to you? If that has to be your reason, let that be your why. But what will it take?

And coming back to my friend and her family member who died, and anyone else who is aware that there will be consequences if they don't make some changes- on some level, they know. You know, I knew deep down. He knew. But turning the knowing into doing requires a reason big enough and real enough to push you past the comfort of the familiar.

So if you knew how it ends, and we all do, we don’t know when or how. But if you did, would you live differently? When I sat with the dying, they talked about the people they loved, the moments they regretted missing, the things they wished they'd enjoyed more, and the fears they wished didn’t hold them back.

You don't need a terminal diagnosis or a deathbed to lie in to start paying attention and showing up for ourselves, but we sure do need to stop waiting for one.

From Nursing to Nurturing Roots: My Journey

Before I was a nurse, I was a little girl watching my grandmother tend to everyday ailments her own way. She didn't reach for the pharmacy; she reached for what she knew. Black salve for boo-boos and burns. Salt water gargles for a sore throat. Epsom salt for a wound that needed cleaning. I didn't know it at the time, but that was my first education in natural remedies, long before I had a name for it.

Years later, I became an ICU nurse. It was intense, meaningful work, but somewhere between the long shifts and high-stakes moments, I hit burnout. Hard. That's when the searching began, about fifteen years ago now. I wasn't just looking for ways to support my patients differently; I was also looking for ways to support myself.

That search deepened when I moved into hospice care. Being present with people at the end of life has a way of clarifying what actually matters, and my curiosity about holistic approaches turned into something much more serious. I got more serious about studying essential oils and plants. I began making my own body care products, just for myself at first, mixing things in my kitchen. My friends and coworkers started noticing and loved what I was creating. They were the ones who pushed me to actually sell it.

In 2018, I finally listened. I opened an Etsy shop. I started doing pop-up markets, and I discovered something I didn't expect to love as much as I did: standing across from strangers, talking about plants, watching a stranger's face light up when something finally clicked for them. That was the real beginning, even though I had no idea yet how long or how winding the road ahead would be.

Then the world shut down. Every market I had planned for 2020 disappeared almost overnight. I had to pivot, so I did. That’s when I found health coaching, enrolled in a certification program, and from there fell down the functional nutrition rabbit hole until I became a certified functional nutritionist, and later a functional diagnostic. I genuinely loved deepening my understanding of holistic and alternative approaches to health, and I loved supporting people who were open to looking outside the box and get to the root of their health challenges. 

But if I'm honest, something still felt unfinished. I was searching for clarity, not just in my professional life, but in my personal life too. I didn't know exactly where any of it was leading, or what I was supposed to do next.

I was a member of the Holistic Nurses Association, and in the spring of 2022, that organization had gifted me a ticket to the Medicines of the Earth symposium in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina. I almost didn't go. I had other responsibilities that weekend, and it would have been easy to skip it. But at the last minute, something told me to show up anyway.

I can't fully explain what happened there, but the clarity I was seeking was shown in the most beautiful way. I left with an overwhelming sense that I had found my calling. These were my people; herbalists, naturopathic physicians, people who saw the body and healing the way I had always sensed it, even before I had the language for it. This was the path I needed to follow.

I came home and started searching for a program that would work for my life at the time. I found one, and finished my herbal studies in 2024 — while simultaneously completing my FDN-P certification, because apparently I've never been someone who does things one at a time.

This past year, I've been building a service-based holistic health business. And I'll be honest, it has been hard. Building a client base of people ready to invest in their health and wellness has been slow, and somewhere in the middle of it, I started losing sight of the bigger picture. The whole point had always been to help people, doing something I genuinely loved, and building a life around that. But I wasn't loving it. At least, not the way I was doing it.

Marketing myself has never come naturally. I'm not an influencer. I'm not a social media guru. And somewhere in trying to build and promote a service-based business, I lost touch with the actual joy of my craft — the part that started this whole journey in the first place.

But there's something funny about how things come full circle. I started this entrepreneurial path years ago creating natural products with my own two hands, just because I loved doing it. And now, after everything — the burnout, the pivots, the certifications, the mountain weekend I almost skipped — I've landed right back there. Creating herbal medicine to support people's health, the way I did at the very beginning, except now carrying everything I've learned along the way.

This is Nurturing Roots Healing. It took fifteen years, three certifications, a global shutdown, and one weekend in the mountains I almost didn't attend to get here. But the spark that started all of this has been reignited, and this time, I'm not letting it go.

Join my community below to see the herbal apothecary grow online and someday in the physical sense, as this is my ultimate goal. 

Herbal Doesn't Automatically Equal Holistic: Why Swapping Pills for Plants Is Only the Beginning

If you've spent any time on wellness-focused social media lately, you've probably seen the posts. "Use this instead of that." Swap your ibuprofen for white willow bark. Trade your antacid for ginger tea. Ditch the melatonin for valerian root. There's nothing wrong with those suggestions on the surface. Herbs are remarkable, and yes, many of them can absolutely step in where conventional options fall short.

But here's what those posts aren't telling you, and what I think is one of the most important distinctions: using herbs does not automatically make your approach holistic.

I know. It might feel like it should. You're choosing plants over pharmaceuticals. You're reading labels and reaching for something rooted in nature. That feels like a shift, and it is; kudos to you! But if you're still in the mindset of "I have this symptom, so I'll take this herb," you haven't actually changed the framework; you've just changed the ingredient.

The "Pill for Every Ill" Problem, Now in Plant Form

Standard allopathic medicine operates on a fairly straightforward model: identify a symptom, prescribe a solution, suppress the discomfort. It's efficient. It's familiar. And for acute situations, it can be genuinely useful. But it was never designed to ask why. Why the symptom showed up in the first place, what the body is trying to communicate, and which systems are out of balance and why.

When we carry that same model into holistic health practices and herbalism, we’re still masking symptoms and using band-aid medicine. When we reach for arnica every time we have a headache without ever wondering what's causing the headaches, we're practicing what some herbalists might call "allopathic herbalism." The idea that herbal medicine is one size fits all, or that a symptom maps directly to an herb with little to no context, is a pattern showing up more and more across social media. And it's worth pausing on, because it keeps us in a loop.

And to take this a step further, when we identify a single compound in a plant, i.e curcumin in turmeric, believed to be responsible for a specific effect, and then we concentrate it, standardize it, and deliver it in a controlled dos, we get a model built on the assumption that we can locate the "active ingredient," extract it from its context, and still get the same result.

The problem is that's not how plants work. And it's not how your body works either.

When we use the same reductionist mindset in herbal medicine, whether by seeking a standardized extract with a high percentage of a single constituent or by choosing a supplement marketed around a single isolated compound, we're essentially doing pharmaceutical thinking and putting a plant label on it. We've changed the source, but not the framework

Let me be clear: there absolutely is a place for acute herbal support, along with short-term and situational support making perfect sense. The concern isn't that we're using herbs for symptoms, the concern is when that's all we're doing, especially when those symptoms keep coming back.

Your Body Is Talking. Are You Listening?

Recurring symptoms are not a coincidence, and they're not bad luck. They are your body's way of waving a flag. One of my herbal teachers, Sajah Popham describes symptoms like a language, and it requires us to listen and understand what they’re trying to tell us. 

If you keep getting ear infections, the question isn't only "what herb helps with ear infections?" The question is, why do you keep getting ear infections? Is there a chronic immune challenge? A food sensitivity driving inflammation? A gut imbalance that's affecting your body's ability to fight off pathogens? A lymphatic system that needs support? These are different questions entirely, and they require a different kind of attention.

This is where holistic health diverges from symptom management, and where it gets genuinely exciting. Holistic care means looking at every body system simultaneously. It means understanding that your digestion, hormones, immune function, stress response, sleep, and mineral status are not separate conversations. They are one conversation, and your body is having it with you constantly. Everything touches everything. 

Homeostasis, that state of balance and ease your body is always working toward, doesn't come from suppressing individual symptoms. It comes from addressing the conditions that allow those symptoms to arise in the first place.

What Holistic Actually Means

Holistic is a commitment to looking at the whole person: the whole body, the whole lifestyle, the whole history. It asks not just what is happening, but why, and it trusts that the body has an inate intelligence that, when properly supported, knows how to heal.

This is also why a genuinely holistic approach to herbal medicine goes far beyond scrolling a list of symptoms and their herbal counterparts. The herbs that serve you best, the combinations, the timing, the preparation, all of that depends on your unique biochemistry. Your current state of health. The body systems most in need of support right now.

When we work this way, herbs stop being substitutes for pills. They become partners in a much larger conversation between you and your body.

The Invitation

If you've been drawn to natural health because something in you knows there's a better way, you're right; there is. But the shift isn't just in what you put in your body. It's in how you understand your body, and what questions you're willing to start asking. The next time a symptom shows up, try getting curious instead of just reactive. Ask why. Sit with the discomfort of not knowing for a moment. And then, rather than reaching for the nearest swap, consider whether it might be time to look at the whole picture. Because that's where real healing lives.

I invite you to a Rooted Assessment so we can start connecting the dots. You can learn more on our services page.

The Acid Reflux Myth: Why Low Stomach Acid Is the Real Problem

If you've ever reached for an antacid after a meal, you've been told the same story most people have: your stomach is making too much acid, and you need to neutralize it. It's a story backed by billions of dollars in pharmaceutical advertising and a medicine cabinet full of pills.

But what if that story has it backwards? What if the heartburn, the bloating, the discomfort after meals isn't coming from too much stomach acid but from too little?

This is one of the most important and misunderstood conversations happening in functional and integrative health right now. And if you've been struggling with chronic digestive issues that don't seem to get better no matter what you do, understanding the role of hydrochloric acid (HCL) in your digestion might be the missing piece you've been looking for.

What Is Stomach Acid and Why Does It Matter?

Your stomach produces hydrochloric acid (HCL) as a core part of the digestive process. When functioning optimally, your stomach maintains a pH of around 1.5 to 3 — highly acidic by design, and for very good reason.

HCL plays a critical role in your overall health and wellbeing, including:

• Breaking down protein so your body can absorb amino acids

• Activating pepsin, the enzyme responsible for protein digestion

• Enabling absorption of vital nutrients including vitamin B12, iron, calcium, magnesium, and zinc

• Triggering the release of bile and pancreatic digestive enzymes downstream

• Serving as a first-line defense against harmful bacteria, parasites, and pathogens in your food

• Signaling the lower esophageal sphincter (LES) to stay tightly closed

When HCL levels drop, this entire cascade begins to break down. And the consequences ripple far beyond your stomach.

The Misconception: More Acid Is the Problem

Here is where the mainstream understanding goes wrong. When someone experiences heartburn or acid reflux, the conventional assumption is that excess stomach acid is splashing up into the esophagus. The solution? Neutralize or suppress the acid with antacids, H2 blockers, or proton pump inhibitors (PPIs) like Prilosec, Nexium, or Prevacid. And for a while, symptoms often do improve. The burning sensation goes away, and the patient feels better ; temporarily. But this approach is addressing the symptom, not the cause. And for a significant number of people, suppressing stomach acid is actually making the underlying problem worse.

As Dr. Jonathan Wright, M.D., author of Why Stomach Acid Is Good For You, has argued, the root cause of heartburn, indigestion, and GERD for many people is not excess stomach acid — it is insufficient stomach acid. Dr. Wright estimates that as many as 90% of people over 40 with GERD are actually suffering from low stomach acid, not high.

The Mechanism: How Low HCL Causes Acid Reflux

Step 1: Acid drops, digestion slows. When stomach acid is low, food is not broken down efficiently. Proteins sit in the stomach longer than they should, partially digested and fermenting rather than moving through properly.

Step 2: Fermentation creates gas and pressure. Undigested food, particularly carbohydrates, begins to ferment in the stomach and small intestine. This fermentation produces gas, which increases intra-abdominal pressure — pressure that pushes upward.

Step 3: The LES is weakened. Under normal conditions, the acidic pH of the stomach signals the lower esophageal sphincter (LES) to stay firmly closed. The LES is the muscular valve that separates your stomach from your esophagus, and it relies on adequate stomach acid to maintain its tone. When acid levels are chronically low, that signal is weakened, and the LES can become lax and open when it shouldn't.

Step 4: Whatever acid remains refluxes upward. When that gas pressure builds and the LES relaxes, stomach contents — including even small amounts of weakened acid — are pushed back up into the esophagus. The esophageal lining is not designed to handle any acid, which is why even a low-acid reflux episode creates that familiar, painful burning sensation.

The irony: the burning feels like too much acid. But the mechanism driving it is often too little.

What Can Low Stomach Acid Lead To?

Left unaddressed, chronically low HCL sets off a chain reaction that extends well beyond heartburn.

Nutrient deficiencies. Without adequate HCL, your body cannot properly absorb vitamin B12, iron, calcium, magnesium, or zinc — no matter how well you eat. This can lead to fatigue, anemia, bone loss, and neurological symptoms over time.

Poor protein digestion. If proteins aren't being broken down into their amino acid building blocks, the body can't build neurotransmitters, repair tissue, support immune function, or maintain muscle mass effectively.

SIBO (Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth). Stomach acid is one of the body's primary defenses against bacteria migrating where they don't belong. When acid is low, bacteria that should stay in the large intestine can travel upward into the small intestine and colonize there — contributing to significant bloating, gas, irregular bowel movements, and nutrient malabsorption.

H. pylori infection. Low stomach acid creates an environment where H. pylori, the bacteria associated with gastric ulcers and chronic gastritis, can survive and thrive. Notably, H. pylori infection itself further suppresses stomach acid, creating a self-reinforcing cycle.

Skin issues. Poor protein digestion and nutrient deficiencies associated with low HCL have been linked to skin conditions including acne, rosacea, and eczema.

Immune vulnerability. With stomach acid reduced as a first-line barrier, the body becomes more susceptible to foodborne pathogens, parasites, and gut infections.

Long-term PPI use compounds the problem. When acid-suppressing medications are taken long term, they further drive down already low HCL levels, deepening nutrient deficiencies and increasing risk of SIBO — the very symptoms the medication was meant to relieve.

Common Signs You May Have Low Stomach Acid

Low stomach acid (hypochlorhydria) is often overlooked because its symptoms can easily be mistaken for other conditions. Signs to pay attention to include:

• Bloating, belching, or gas shortly after eating

• Heartburn or acid reflux (especially after protein-heavy meals)

• Feeling excessively full after small meals

• Undigested food visible in stool

• Chronic fatigue or low energy

• Iron deficiency anemia that doesn't respond well to supplementation

• Brittle nails, hair thinning, or hair loss

• Frequent nausea

• History of H. pylori infection

• Long-term use of antacids or PPIs

How to Start Correcting Low Stomach Acid

The goal with supporting HCL isn't to override your body's systems — it's to work with them. Here are some gentle, foundational steps to begin:

Slow down and eat mindfully. Digestion begins in the brain, not the stomach. The sight, smell, and anticipation of food triggers the release of digestive juices. Eating in a relaxed, parasympathetic state (rather than rushing through meals while stressed) is one of the most important things you can do to support healthy HCL production.

Chew thoroughly. Chewing breaks food into smaller pieces and signals the stomach to begin producing acid. Most of us chew far less than we should. Aim to chew each bite until food is nearly liquid before swallowing.

Try apple cider vinegar or lemon juice before meals. A tablespoon of raw, unfiltered apple cider vinegar in a small amount of water, or fresh lemon juice in water, taken 10 to 15 minutes before eating can help gently prime your stomach for digestion and lower gastric pH in preparation for the meal.

Incorporate digestive bitters. Bitter herbs including gentian root, dandelion, artichoke leaf, and wormwood work by stimulating taste receptors that trigger the body's digestive reflexes — including HCL production and enzyme secretion. Bitters are one of the gentlest and most herbalist-friendly tools for digestive support. Starting a meal with bitter greens like arugula, radicchio, or dandelion leaf is a simple food-first approach.

Support your zinc levels. Zinc is a necessary cofactor in HCL production. Many people are deficient. Food sources including pumpkin seeds, red meat, oysters, legumes, and nuts all support zinc intake.

Eat protein first. Amino acids in protein are among the strongest triggers for stomach acid secretion. Starting your meal with a protein food before moving to starches and vegetables may help optimize HCL output.

Avoid drinking large amounts of water with meals. Drinking significant amounts of water during a meal can dilute gastric juices, impairing digestion. Sipping small amounts is fine, but save your water intake for between meals.

Consider Betaine HCL with pepsin. For those working with a practitioner, Betaine HCL is a supplemental form of hydrochloric acid that can be taken before protein-rich meals to support digestion. This is not a first step to take independently — it is best introduced with practitioner guidance, particularly because dosing requires careful titration. (Note: Betaine HCL is not appropriate if you have gastritis, active ulcers, or are currently taking anti-inflammatory medications.)

Address the stress piece. The body cannot produce stomach acid in a fight-or-flight state. Chronic stress directly suppresses HCL production. Nervous system support — whether through breathwork, rest, adaptogenic herbs, or mindfulness practices — is a genuine and underappreciated part of digestive health.

A Note on Testing

If you suspect low stomach acid is playing a role in your symptoms, there are ways to explore this further. A simple at-home baking soda test (drinking a solution of baking soda in water on an empty stomach and observing burp timing) can offer a rough first indicator, though it is not diagnostic. Your doctor may suggest a more accurate assessment, such as a Heidelberg test (measuring gastric pH with a swallowed capsule). An accurate assessment can be doner through comprehensive stool and functional lab testing with a practitioner. This is something we can explore within a Rooted Functional Assessment, where we look at the full digestive and nutritional picture together.

The conversation around acid reflux has been shaped largely by pharmaceutical interests, and the default solution — suppress the acid — may be giving temporary comfort while deepening the root cause for many people. If this resonates with you, know that you are not imagining your symptoms, and you are not out of options. Understanding what your digestion actually needs, rather than simply quieting its signals, is where real, lasting change begins.

Your gut is trying to tell you something. Let's learn to listen.

Reference

Wright, J.V., & Lenard, L. (2001). Why Stomach Acid Is Good for You: Natural Relief from Heartburn, Indigestion, Reflux and GERD. M. Evans & Company.

This is a foundational text for understanding the relationship between low stomach acid, GERD, and long-term digestive health. Dr. Wright is a Harvard and University of Michigan graduate and a pioneer in nutritional and integrative medicine.

Xenoestrogens & Estrogen Dominance — What's Hiding in Your Everyday Products?

You feel like you’re doing ‘all the things’” and yet something still feels off. Stubborn weight around the hips, mood swings that seem to come out of nowhere, cycles that are all over the place, or fatigue that no amount of sleep seems to fix.

Here's something I want you to consider: it might not be something you're doing wrong. It might be something you're being exposed to. We live in a world saturated with chemicals that behave like estrogen in the body, and most people have never heard of them. Today, I want to talk about xenoestrogens, what they are, where they hide, and why they're affecting the hormonal health of both women and men.

What Are Xenoestrogens and How Do They Work?

The word "xeno" comes from the Greek word for foreign. Xenoestrogens are foreign, synthetic chemicals that mimic or enhance the effect of estrogen once they enter the body. They're not hormones in the traditional sense, but they behave like them inside of your body.

Here's the key: because xenoestrogens are structurally similar to your body's natural estrogen (specifically estradiol), they can bind to your estrogen receptor sites on a cell. When you eat them, absorb them through your skin, or breathe them in, they add to the total estrogen load your body is carrying. Over time, that cumulative load can tip you into what we call estrogen dominance.

Estrogen dominance doesn't always mean your estrogen is sky-high. It means estrogen is high relative to progesterone — that critical hormonal balance has been disrupted. And here's the frustrating part: xenoestrogens are fat-soluble, meaning they accumulate in fat tissue and can stay there for a long time rather than clearing out quickly.

These chemicals are part of a broader group called endocrine-disrupting chemicals (EDCs), and they've only been introduced into our environment in the last 70 or so years through industrial, agricultural, and chemical manufacturing. In that short window, they've quietly made their way into nearly every corner of our daily lives.

Where Are Xenoestrogens Hiding?

This is the part that tends to surprise people, because the answer is: almost everywhere.

Personal Care and Beauty Products Parabens, phthalates, and synthetic fragrances are some of the most common xenoestrogens hiding in your lotion, shampoo, conditioner, makeup, and perfume. These ingredients are used as preservatives and scent carriers, but inside the body, they behave like estrogen. When you apply these products to your skin daily, absorption is constant and cumulative.

Plastics BPA (bisphenol A) is one of the most well-known xenoestrogens, found in many plastic food containers, water bottles, and the lining of canned goods. It can leach into food and beverages, especially when heated or exposed to sunlight. And here's something worth knowing: even products labeled "BPA-free" may contain similar compounds like BPS or BPF that carry similar estrogenic effects.

Conventionally Raised Meat and Dairy- Commercially raised beef, chicken, and pork are often treated with synthetic hormones to speed growth. When we consume these products, we take in those residual hormones. Dairy can be another source, especially from cows that weren't raised on pasture.

Pesticides and Herbicides- Many pesticides used in conventional agriculture are known endocrine disruptors. Foods with high pesticide residues like strawberries, apples, spinach, and peppers can be significant sources of xenoestrogen exposure when consumed regularly.

Household Cleaning Products and Air Fresheners -Synthetic fragrances in cleaning sprays, laundry detergents, fabric softeners, and air fresheners often contain phthalates, which mimic estrogen in the body. Just because something smells clean doesn't mean it's clean.

Hormonal Birth Control and Conventional HRT -Synthetic estrogens found in oral contraceptives and conventional hormone replacement therapy can also contribute to overall estrogen load, particularly if the body is already struggling to clear excess estrogen efficiently.

Estrogen Dominance Symptoms in Women

For women, estrogen dominance can show up across the full spectrum of reproductive life, from your cycling years through perimenopause and beyond. The symptoms can be easy to dismiss as "just stress" or "just getting older," but they're your body's way of signaling that something is out of balance.

Common signs of estrogen dominance in women include:

• Heavy, painful, or irregular periods

• PMS that feels extreme: mood swings, irritability, crying spells

• Breast tenderness or fibrocystic breasts

• Bloating and water retention

• Weight gain, especially around the hips, thighs, and midsection

• Fatigue that doesn't improve with rest

• Brain fog and difficulty concentrating

• Anxiety or depression

• Low libido

• Headaches or migraines, especially around your cycle

• Uterine fibroids or endometriosis

For women in perimenopause, when progesterone naturally begins to decline before estrogen does, xenoestrogen exposure can make the transition significantly more difficult, amplifying symptoms that might otherwise be more manageable.

Long-term estrogen dominance has also been linked to an increased risk of estrogen-sensitive cancers, including breast, ovarian, and uterine cancer. This is not meant to frighten you. It's meant to underscore why understanding and reducing your exposure matters.

Estrogen Dominance in Men: Yes, It Affects Them Too

This part of the conversation often surprises people, because we tend to think of estrogen as a women's hormone. But men produce and need small amounts of estrogen for bone health, brain function, and cardiovascular support. The problem arises when that balance tips too far.

Men experience estrogen dominance when estrogen becomes disproportionately high relative to testosterone and progesterone. This can happen through xenoestrogen exposure, excess body fat (fat tissue produces estrogen), liver dysfunction, chronic stress, or age-related shifts in hormone production.

Signs of estrogen dominance in men include:

• Gynecomastia (development of breast tissue, not just fat, but actual glandular tissue)

• Belly fat and difficulty building or maintaining muscle

• Low libido and erectile dysfunction

• Low sperm count or infertility

• Fatigue and low energy

• Mood swings, irritability, or depression

• Brain fog

• Hair loss

Research shows that the testosterone-to-estrogen balance in males has been declining since the 1980s. Xenoestrogen exposure is considered one of the contributing factors, alongside obesity, alcohol use, and chronic stress. Excess estrogen in men can also increase the risk of prostate issues, stroke, and cardiovascular disease, making this a serious health concern that deserves far more mainstream attention.

How to Reduce Xenoestrogen Exposure and Support Your Body

The goal here isn't perfection; it's progress. You don't have to overhaul everything overnight, and living in a state of fear or anxiety about exposure does your hormones no favors either. But making intentional shifts can meaningfully reduce your total xenoestrogen load over time.

Swap out plastics. Switch to glass, stainless steel, or ceramic for food and water storage. Never heat food in plastic containers. This single swap can make a real difference.

Read your labels. Look for personal care products free from parabens, phthalates, and synthetic fragrance. Apps like EWG's Skin Deep database can help you evaluate what you're using.

Choose cleaner food. Prioritize organic produce, especially for the "Dirty Dozen" (the foods with the highest pesticide residue). Opt for pasture-raised, hormone-free meat and dairy when possible.

Filter your water. Many municipal water supplies contain trace estrogenic compounds. A quality carbon or reverse osmosis filter can reduce this exposure significantly.

Support your liver. Your liver is your primary estrogen-clearing organ. Nourishing it with bitter greens, cruciferous vegetables (broccoli, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts), adequate hydration, and limiting alcohol gives your body the best chance to process and eliminate excess estrogen.

Care for your gut. The estrobolome — the collection of gut bacteria involved in estrogen metabolism — plays a significant role in whether estrogen is properly excreted or recirculated. A fiber-rich diet and probiotic support are key here.

Move your body. Exercise helps metabolize and clear excess estrogen stored in fat tissue. Resistance training in particular has been shown to support healthy testosterone and estrogen balance in both men and women.

Swap synthetic scents. Replace synthetic air fresheners, candles, and fragranced cleaning products with unscented options or those made with pure essential oils.

Understanding xenoestrogens and estrogen dominance isn't about adding more to your worry list. It's about clarity. When you know what you're working against, you can make choices that support your body rather than burden it. Small, consistent swaps compound over time into meaningful change for your hormones, your health, and how you feel every day.

If you suspect estrogen dominance is playing a role in what you're experiencing, working with a practitioner who can look at the full hormonal picture, including how you're metabolizing estrogen and not just your levels, is a powerful place to start. Book a Rooted Foundations Assessment to get started.

Your body is always communicating with you. This is one message worth listening to.

Why You Can't Lose Weight: 3 Hidden Hormone Imbalances Wrecking Your Metabolism

So, you’re eating well, exercising, and doing all the “right” things, but your body feels like it’s working against you. Energy is low, the weight won’t budge, or maybe you’re struggling with mood swings or that mid-afternoon crash (cue one more cup of coffee). Sound familiar? 

In my experience in helping people uncover the root causes of their health struggles, I’m here to tell you that these concerns are all rooted in your metabolism, which, by the way, isn’t just about burning calories. It’s the engine that powers your body, fueling everything from how you think to how you move. And at the heart of it all are your hormones; those tiny chemical messengers with a big job.

What’s tricky is that hormone imbalances often hide in plain sight, showing up as symptoms we tend to brush off or blame on aging, stress, or lack of willpower. But here’s the good news: once you understand how these hidden hormone imbalances can sabotage your metabolism, you can take steps to address them and start to become the healthiest, most vibrant version of you.

Let’s dive in!

🔥 Download my FREE Metabolic Makeover Guide to learn exactly how to get your metabolism working FOR you, not against you!

The Role of Hormones in Metabolism

You can think of metabolism as the network of processes your body uses to create energy. Everything you do (breathing, running, even thinking) depends on it. And at the center of this network are your hormones.

Three hormone systems are particularly critical to metabolism:

1. Thyroid Hormones (T3 and T4): These are the powerhouses of your metabolic system. Produced by the thyroid gland, T3 and T4 determine your body’s metabolic rate—the speed at which you burn energy. PMID: 32489580

2. Insulin: Insulin is your body’s key to energy storage and use. It helps shuttle glucose from your bloodstream into your cells, where it can be used for fuel. When insulin works as it should, your blood sugar stays steady, and your metabolism stays on track. PMID: 20392600

3. Adrenal Hormones (Cortisol): Often called the “stress hormone,” cortisol plays a dual role in metabolism. In short bursts, it can help you respond to stress by releasing energy stores. 

The first step to getting back on track is understanding how these hormones impact your body and learning to recognize when something is off. PMID: 19470627

Thyroid Imbalances and Metabolism

Your thyroid is like the thermostat of your metabolism, keeping everything running at the right temperature and speed. But when it’s out of balance, the entire system can feel off. Whether it’s running too slow or too fast, a thyroid imbalance can impact how you feel, how you burn energy, and even how you store fat.

When your thyroid is underactive (hypothyroidism), low levels of T3 and T4 slow down every metabolic process. This means you might feel like your body is stuck in slow motion:

• Fatigue that makes even small tasks feel overwhelming.

• Unexplained weight gain, no matter how healthy you eat.

• Dry skin, brittle hair, or nails that seem to break easily.

• Constipation or digestive sluggishness.

• Feeling constantly cold, even when others are comfortable.

On the flip side, an overactive thyroid (hyperthyroidism) means high levels of these hormones speed up your metabolism to the point where your body begins breaking down muscle and other tissues for fuel. It may feel like your metabolism is stuck in overdrive:

• Rapid, unintentional weight loss.

• Anxiety.

• Heart palpitations that can leave you feeling jittery.

• Trouble tolerating heat.

The tricky thing about thyroid imbalances is that they often get overlooked or misdiagnosed. But there are tools to help identify the problem:

• Comprehensive testing: A full thyroid panel, including TSH, Free T3, Free T4, and thyroid antibodies, can provide a clearer picture of how your thyroid is functioning. Please reach out if this is something you would like to pursue.

• Monitor basal body temperature: Low morning temperatures (below 97.8°F or 36.5°C) can sometimes indicate hypothyroidism.

There are also many actionable steps you can take to support your thyroid:

• Nutritional support: Key nutrients like selenium, iodine, and zinc play a vital role in thyroid health. Incorporating foods like Brazil nuts (selenium), seaweed (iodine), and pumpkin seeds (zinc) can help. A simple test I use is the HTMA (Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis) to see where you stand in deficiencies or above optimal levels. This test can be a valuable tool in getting to the bottom of some of your health challenges and a great place to start balancing your metabolism. You can read more about this test here.

• Stress management: Chronic stress elevates cortisol, which can interfere with thyroid function. Mindfulness, yoga, or even just a daily walk can go a long way in supporting your thyroid.

Struggling with low energy and stubborn weight? My FREE Metabolic Makeover Guide will show you how to reset your metabolism naturally. Download it here!

Insulin Resistance and Its Metabolic Impact

Insulin is a critical hormone for metabolism; however, if insulin resistance creeps in (when your body's cells stop responding as they should to insulin), the system starts to falter—and the metabolic consequences can be profound.

Insulin resistance often flies under the radar until it becomes a bigger problem, but there are early signs to watch for:

• Weight gain, especially around the abdomen, that feels resistant to diet or exercise.

• Fatigue after meals, particularly after high-carbohydrate meals.

• Intense sugar cravings that can feel impossible to ignore.

• Skin changes like darkened patches around the neck, armpits, or groin (a condition called acanthosis nigricans).

When insulin resistance sets in, your cells stop responding properly to insulin’s signals. This creates a metabolic cascade:

• Inefficient glucose utilization: Sugar lingers in the bloodstream instead of being used as fuel.

• Increased fat storage: The body stores excess glucose as fat, especially in the abdominal area.

• Chronic inflammation: Elevated insulin and blood sugar levels drive systemic inflammation, which further disrupts metabolism.

The first step in tackling insulin resistance is confirming its presence. Here’s how to do that:

• Lab tests: Ask for fasting glucose, HbA1c (a marker of average blood sugar over three months), and fasting insulin levels (this one is key and often overlooked). Elevated levels can indicate resistance. Need testing? Book your Strategy call here.

• Glucose tolerance test or CGM: A glucose tolerance test measures how your body handles sugar over a few hours, while Continuous Glucose Monitoring (CGM) provides real-time insights into your blood sugar patterns throughout the day. I use Theia Health for myself and my clients to monitor blood sugar.

The good news is that insulin resistance is highly responsive to lifestyle changes. With the right steps, you can restore balance and improve your metabolic health:

• Low-glycemic diet: Focus on whole foods like vegetables, legumes, lean proteins, and healthy fats to stabilize blood sugar. Avoid refined carbs and added sugars, which can exacerbate insulin resistance.

• Resistance training: Strength training improves insulin sensitivity by encouraging muscle cells to take up glucose more efficiently.

• Stress management: Chronic stress elevates cortisol, which can worsen insulin resistance. Incorporate relaxation practices like yoga, meditation, or nature walks into your routine.
  

Adrenal Hormone Imbalances (Cortisol Dysregulation)

As I’m sure we’re all well aware, stress is a natural part of life, but when it becomes chronic? It can wreak havoc on your hormones—especially cortisol, the primary stress hormone. Produced by your adrenal glands, cortisol plays a crucial role in your metabolism. When cortisol is out of balance, it can leave you feeling exhausted, irritable, and stuck in a metabolic rut.

Cortisol dysregulation can manifest in a variety of ways, depending on whether levels are too high, too low, or fluctuate unpredictably:

• Chronic fatigue that doesn’t improve with rest.

• Stubborn weight gain, particularly around the abdomen.

• Cravings for salty or sweet foods, especially during periods of stress.

• Irritability or mood swings that feel hard to control.

• Difficulty sleeping, whether it’s trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up feeling unrested.

Cortisol is like a double-edged sword when it comes to metabolism. In short bursts, it’s helpful—mobilizing energy and helping you respond to immediate challenges. But chronic stress and consistently high cortisol levels can lead to:

• Muscle breakdown: Cortisol breaks down muscle tissue to release glucose, reducing your body’s ability to burn calories efficiently.

• Fat storage: High cortisol encourages fat storage, particularly in the abdominal area, where it’s most metabolically active and inflammatory.

• Blood sugar spikes: Cortisol increases blood sugar levels, promoting insulin resistance over time.

When cortisol levels are too low—sometimes called “adrenal fatigue”—your metabolism can slow significantly, leading to low energy, poor recovery, and difficulty maintaining a healthy weight.

The first step to addressing cortisol imbalances is understanding your body’s stress response:

• Saliva or urine cortisol testing: These tests measure cortisol levels at multiple points throughout the day to assess your natural rhythm. If you are interested in going this route, please reach out or book a Free call. 

• Evaluate stress levels and symptoms: Reflect on patterns in your energy, mood, and cravings, particularly during times of stress.

Balancing cortisol is all about reducing chronic stress and supporting your adrenal glands:

• Support with adaptogens: Herbs like ashwagandha, rhodiola, and holy basil can help modulate your stress response and improve adrenal resilience.

• Stress reduction techniques: Mindfulness practices like meditation, yoga, or deep breathing exercises can lower cortisol levels and improve overall stress tolerance.

• Maintain consistent blood sugar levels: Eating balanced meals with protein, healthy fats, and fiber can prevent the blood sugar dips and spikes that stress your adrenal glands.

Conclusion

Sometimes, despite your best efforts—cleaning up your diet, managing stress, getting enough sleep—your body still doesn’t respond the way you hoped. If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of frustrating symptoms despite making positive changes, there’s a good chance your body is trying to tell you something. 

A functional medicine approach goes beyond simply treating symptoms; it focuses on uncovering the root causes of your hormonal imbalances. Book a FREE call to learn how a functional and holistic approach can help you from the inside out!

The Hidden Chemicals Disrupting Your Hormones — And What to Do About It

You're doing everything right. You're eating well, getting enough sleep, and trying to manage stress. And yet something still feels off: your energy is unpredictable, your cycle is irregular, your mood shifts without warning. If you've ever felt dismissed by a doctor who chalked it all up to "just hormones," or “just aging,” you're not alone. But here's what most of us were never told: your environment may be quietly working against you.

A class of chemicals called endocrine-disrupting chemicals (EDCs) is found in everyday products, from the packaging around your lunch to the lotion on your nightstand. They can interfere with your hormonal health in ways that are only beginning to be understood. For women especially, the effects can be far-reaching.

Let's break down what EDCs are, how they affect the female body, and,  most importantly, what you can do about them.

Understanding Endocrine Disrupting Chemicals (EDCs)

Your endocrine system is essentially your body's internal messaging network. It produces and regulates hormones that control everything from your metabolism and mood to your sleep and reproductive health. When that system is working well, your body hums along in balance. When something interferes with it, the ripple effects can show up almost anywhere.

EDCs are synthetic or naturally occurring chemicals that disrupt the system by mimicking hormones, blocking them, or interfering with how they're produced and broken down. Even in very small amounts, they can throw off delicate hormonal processes.

The scale of exposure is striking. Recent research estimates there are around 350,000 chemical compounds in circulation globally. The CDC's National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey has detected over 212 synthetic chemicals in the blood and urine of 99% of people tested. These aren't rare exposures — they're everyday ones.

That said, not all chemicals are harmful. Many have meaningfully improved our quality of life. The concern is specifically with the subset that interferes with our hormonal health.

How EDCs Affect Women’s Health

Women's hormonal systems are particularly complex, cycling through changes monthly and across decades of life, which means there are more points of vulnerability when something disrupts the process.

EDCs affect the female body in two primary ways:

Hormone mimicry- Some EDCs have molecular structures similar enough to estrogen, thyroid hormones, or androgens that they can bind to hormone receptors and trigger a response — like a copied key that fits the lock but doesn't quite belong there. This can lead to estrogen dominance, a hormonal imbalance linked to conditions like breast cancer and endometriosis.

Blocking and interference- Other EDCs block hormone receptors, preventing natural hormones from doing their job. Some disrupt how hormones are metabolized — particularly in the liver, which plays a key role in clearing excess hormones from the body. When that process is compromised, synthetic chemicals can accumulate and tip the hormonal balance further.
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Health Conditions Linked to EDC Exposure

Because the endocrine system touches nearly every part of the body, EDC exposure has been connected to a wide range of conditions that disproportionately affect women:

Infertility and menstrual disorders- Phthalates, found in many plastics and fragrances, have been linked to longer time to conception, irregular cycles, and decreased egg quality.

Endometriosis- Chemicals, including BPA, phthalates, and dioxins, have been associated with the inflammatory response that promotes endometrial lesions. Research suggests that female fetuses exposed to EDCs in utero may have a higher risk of developing endometriosis later in life.

PCOS and early puberty- Polycystic ovary syndrome affects an estimated 70% of women who have it unknowingly. EDCs contribute to the hormone disruptions at the core of PCOS, including insulin resistance and elevated androgens. Exposure has also been linked to earlier onset of puberty, which itself increases risk for PCOS and breast cancer.

Breast cancer- Parabens, phthalates, and BPA can mimic estrogen, promoting breast tissue growth and creating conditions that raise breast cancer risk.

Early menopause- PFAS, chemicals found in nonstick cookware and water-resistant fabrics, have been associated with accelerated menopause onset. Entering menopause earlier raises the risk for cardiovascular disease, osteoporosis, and depression.

Practical Steps to Reduce EDC Exposure

Learning all of this can feel heavy. But you don't need to overhaul your entire life overnight. Small, consistent changes add up, and even reducing exposure incrementally can support your body's ability to maintain hormonal balance.

Rethink your personal care products- Many conventional cosmetics and skin care products contain phthalates, parabens, and synthetic fragrances. Look for fragrance-free or clearly labeled natural alternatives. "Fragrance" on an ingredient list can be a catch-all for dozens of unlisted chemicals.

Switch to glass or stainless steel food storage- Plastic containers, especially when heated, can leach BPA and phthalates into your food. Glass and stainless steel are straightforward swaps that reduce a daily exposure point.

Filter your drinking water- Tap water can carry traces of EDCs from pesticide runoff and industrial contamination. A quality filter certified to remove PFAS, BPA, and pesticides is worth the investment.

Skip the nonstick cookware- Most nonstick pans are coated with PFAS. Stainless steel, cast iron, and ceramic are safer alternatives, and they last longer, too.

Prioritize organic produce where it counts- You don't have to buy everything organic, but focusing on fruits and vegetables known to carry higher pesticide residues (commonly called the "Dirty Dozen") can meaningfully reduce your exposure.

A Note on Women's Health and EDC Research

Historically, most medical research was conducted on men, leaving significant gaps in our understanding of how environmental exposures affect women specifically. That's beginning to change, but it means many women are navigating health challenges that science is only recently catching up to. Raising awareness matters. Advocating for better research and stronger environmental regulations matters. And so does making informed choices in your own daily life — not out of fear, but out of a genuine desire to support your health and feel your best.

The Bottom Line

Endocrine-disrupting chemicals are pervasive, but you're not powerless. The more you understand about where these chemicals show up and how they interact with your body, the more equipped you are to make choices that work for your health rather than against it.

Start with one or two swaps. Talk to your doctor about hormonal symptoms that haven't been fully explained. And know that paying attention to these things isn't alarmist — it's one of the most practical things you can do for your long-term wellbeing.

If you’re feeling called, I invite you to explore my hormone and symptom assessment options.

Why Your Blood Work Is Normal But You Still Feel Awful — And What HTMA Can Reveal

If you've ever felt like something is off — fatigue that won't budge, brain fog, mood swings, stubborn weight, digestive problems, and yet your standard blood work comes back "normal," you are not alone. And more importantly, you may not have been looking in the right place.

Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis (HTMA) is a sophisticated laboratory test that measures the mineral content stored in your hair. Those mineral levels paint a remarkably detailed picture of your body chemistry over the past two to three months — including nutritional imbalances, toxic metal burden, metabolic function, and even how efficiently your organs and glands are working.

Let's break down exactly what HTMA is, why it's different from other tests, what it can reveal, and how working with a trained practitioner takes your results from raw data to a real, personalized roadmap for better health.

So What Exactly Is HTMA?

Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis is a laboratory test that analyzes a small sample of scalp hair, about a tablespoon, cut close to the root. It uses a process called ICP-Mass Spectrometry (ICP-MS), one of the most precise analytical instruments in modern science.

The hair that grows from your scalp is nourished by the bloodstream. As it forms, it incorporates the minerals and toxic metals circulating and stored in your body's tissues. Once those minerals are locked into the hair shaft, they stay there. This makes hair a unique biological record of what your body has been doing over months, not just what happened on the morning of a blood draw.

"Your hair holds a record of your internal environment — a months-long story that blood tests simply cannot tell."

Why This Matters

Blood tests give you a snapshot in time, at the moment of the test. HTMA gives you the full film reel: your actual tissue storage levels over time. This is where real nutritional status lives.

The lab used for this testing, Trace Elements, Inc. (TEI), is one of the world's leading hair analysis laboratories, processing over 50,000 samples per year and specializing exclusively in hair mineral analysis. Their methodology and reference ranges are based on decades of clinical research, and each report is built around hundreds of evaluated factors, not just raw numbers.

HTMA vs. Blood & Urine Tests: What's the Difference?

This is one of the most common questions, and the answer matters enormously for your health decisions.

Think of blood and urine tests as photographs, and HTMA as the documentary. Both have value — but only one tells the story of what's really been going on beneath the surface.

What Does HTMA Actually Measure?

A comprehensive HTMA report analyses both nutritional minerals and toxic heavy metals. But the magic isn't just in individual levels; it's in how those minerals relate to one another. The ratios between minerals reveal information about your glandular function, stress response, metabolic rate, and much more.

Mineral Examples

Toxic Heavy Metals Screened

HTMA is one of the most effective and accessible tools for identifying heavy metal accumulation in the body, often years before clinical symptoms appear. Metals assessed include lead, mercury, cadmium, arsenic, aluminum, nickel, and more.

An Important Note on Heavy Metals

Elevated toxic metals on an HTMA report don't necessarily mean acute toxicity. They indicate exposure and retention over time, which is valuable information that allows us to support your body's natural detoxification pathways proactively, before symptoms become serious.

What HTMA Reveals Beyond the Numbers

This is where HTMA truly sets itself apart from any other test. A well-interpreted report doesn't just list mineral levels, it reveals the underlying patterns that drive your symptoms and health challenges.

Your Metabolic Type

Your mineral levels reveal whether you are a Fast Metabolizer or a Slow Metabolizer — and this has profound implications for which supplements you should (and shouldn't) take. Taking the wrong supplements for your metabolic type can actually worsen imbalances. A well-matched protocol supports your metabolism instead of working against it.

Adrenal & Thyroid Function

The sodium-to-potassium and calcium-to-potassium ratios are windows into your adrenal and thyroid activity, respectively. These are glands that conventional medicine often dismisses as "fine" based on standard panels, yet they are central to energy, mood, weight regulation, and resilience.

Why "Eating Well" May Not Be Enough

Soil mineral depletion, environmental pollutants, medication effects, genetic factors, gut health, and your individual metabolic type all influence what your body actually absorbs and retains from food. Two people can eat identical diets and have radically different nutritional profiles. HTMA shows your actual status — removing the guesswork from supplementation entirely.

Mineral Interrelationships

Minerals don't work in isolation. Zinc and copper compete. Excess calcium can suppress magnesium. Too much vitamin C can deplete copper. Excess iron creates damaging free radicals. An HTMA report evaluates these interactions, which is why your recommendations may include nutrients that appear "high" on your test or omit those that appear "low." The overall pattern is what guides the protocol.

Who Can Benefit from HTMA?

The short answer: almost anyone. HTMA is not just for the unwell. It's used by athletes optimizing performance, parents monitoring their children's development, and people committed to long-term health maintenance, as well as those actively struggling and seeking answers.

HTMA may be particularly revealing if you're dealing with:

• Persistent fatigue or low energy despite adequate sleep

• Anxiety, depression, or mood dysregulation

• Difficulty losing or maintaining weight

• Brain fog or poor concentration

• Hormonal imbalances, PMS, or thyroid concerns

• Digestive issues and nutrient absorption problems

• Hair loss, skin problems, or brittle nails

• Known or suspected heavy metal exposure

• "Normal" blood work, but persistent symptoms

• Pregnancy planning or postnatal recovery

It is also safe and useful for children, and can be retested every three to four months to track progress and update recommendations as your mineral balance shifts.

Why Interpretation Is Everything

Here is something important that is rarely discussed: the raw numbers in an HTMA report mean very little without skilled interpretation. A mineral that appears elevated may actually indicate a relative deficiency. A level that appears low may not need direct supplementation at all.

This is why I don't simply pass along a lab printout. When you complete an HTMA through my practice, I provide a thorough, personalized interpretation of your results, taking into account:

• Your full mineral profile and all key ratios

• Your metabolic type and what it means for your dietary and supplement choices

• Your toxic metal burden and what it suggests about past exposures

• Your health history, current symptoms, diet, and lifestyle

• Targeted, prioritized supplement and dietary recommendations — specific to you

• Follow-up support to review your progress and retest when appropriate

The Difference Personalized Interpretation Makes

There is no such thing as a "standard" HTMA protocol. The right supplements for a Fast Metabolizer are often exactly the wrong ones for a Slow Metabolizer. Getting this right — for your body — is the entire point.

How to Get Started: The Simple Process

1- Book your HTMA consultation with Comprehensive Wellness Assessment

I'll send you everything you need.

2- Receive your Kit and Collect your hair sample at home

Using the simple instructions provided, you take a small sample of scalp hair — about a tablespoon — from the back of your head, close to the root. No clinic visit required.

3- Send to the lab

Your sample is sent directly to Trace Elements, Inc. (TEI), a dedicated hair analysis laboratory processing thousands of samples with rigorous quality control.

4- Receive your personalized report & recommendations

Once the results are back, I analyze your full mineral profile and prepare a comprehensive, personalized interpretation with targeted dietary, lifestyle, and supplement recommendations, along with a wellness roadmap. I walk you through it with a detailed screen video, so you can view it on your own time, OR you can upgrade to an in-person telehealth session. We will walk through everything together.

5- Follow your protocol & retest

Your program is designed to evolve with you. Retesting every three to four months tracks your progress, confirms what's working, and allows your protocol to be refined as your mineral balance improves.

Perimenopause and Menopause: Why You’re Not Getting Relief (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right)

You might be one of those women who feels like you’ve tried everything, and you’re still on the struggle bus. Maybe it’s been years of trying to lose the same 10 pounds, the hot flashes, brain fog, the mood swings, or the exhaustion that just won’t lift. It might look like this: You try something new—something that worked for your friend, your neighbor, or someone online. It helps… for a little while, or maybe not at all.

Your labs come back “normal,” and yet, you know something isn’t right. So you keep searching and trying, and wondering why nothing seems to truly work.

Here’s the truth: It’s not that your body is broken. It’s that you haven’t yet given it what it specifically needs. Finding relief in this season is not one-size-fits-all. It’s bioindividual, and I help women uncover their needs through rooted assessments.

Even though each person is individual, there are a few categories one can be placed in to help direct care. Let me explain this in a way that might land. I like stories, and in my own studies over the years, even ages ago, when I was in nursing school, I always appreciated analogies in order for things to really make sense. 

Imagine that every woman entering perimenopause or menopause is sent to a place called Motherwort Castle. (And yes—if you know me, you know I’m an herbalist. Every house here is named after a plant traditionally used in women’s health)

Every woman’s length of stay here varies. You may stay for a few years… or for decades. When you arrive, you’re placed into one primary house that will determine what your stay will be like and how successful you will be when you graduate. 

Each house represents a different underlying blueprint in the body and requires a different approach. 

The Houses of Motherwort Castle

1. The Cohosh Condo- “Everything changed overnight.”

If you are sorted into this house, suddenly, what seemed like overnight, you might notice:

Weight gain (especially around the middle)

• Hot flashes and night sweats

• Achy joints

• Decreased libido

• Skin changes

• Vaginal dryness or dry eyes

• Muscle loss or weakness

For women in this house, hormone replacement therapy (HRT) can be helpful. But here’s the nuance: If you’re also hanging out in other houses (and most women are), hormones alone won’t fully resolve things. And even when HRT works, it’s not the whole picture for long-term vitality.

2. The Dandelion Den- “I’m doing everything… and nothing is working.”

This house is incredibly common—and often overlooked. You may feel:

• Bloated, sluggish, and heavy

• Foggy and fatigued

• Unable to lose weight

• Frustrated that nothing “sticks”

Standard labs might show elevated cholesterol, blood sugar imbalances, and underlying inflammation, among other findings.

What’s happening here? Your body is likely not clearing and processing efficiently. This often points to sluggish detox pathways (especially in the liver), hormones that are not properly metabolized, and toxin buildup that interferes with function. The bottom line is: you can have “enough” hormones, but you’re not able to utilize them properly. What’s more, is that adding hormones (or supplements) without improving clearance can actually make symptoms worse. And despite what you may hear, aggressive detoxing is not the answer here. In this season, your body often lacks the capacity for harsh detox protocols. You need added support, not depletion.

3. The Vitex Treehouse- “My body doesn’t tolerate anything.”

This is the house that doesn’t get talked about enough. You might try HRT, supplements, and other natural protocols, but instead of feeling better, you feel worse. Or things work briefly, but then don’t last. This is often a cellular communication problem. 

You can think of your cells like a bus. Hormones need to “get on the bus” (enter the cell) to reach the site where they do their job. If they can’t, they don’t reach their destination and aren’t utilized, causing your symptoms to persist. This is less about how much you have, but more about whether your body can actually use it.

4. The Angelica Abode- “There’s something deeper going on.”

This house includes women who have, or develop, underlying conditions alongside hormonal changes. This aften presents in the form of: Autoimmune conditions (like Hashimoto’s), chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, or other long-standing health challenges that have flared. 

What happens in this house is important because hormones were compensating in your 20s and 30s, but now they’re not as easily doing so. So, underlying issues that were once quiet, they start to surface.

These women often feel deeply exhausted and react poorly to interventions. They need a more layered approach. In this case, you cannot separate hormones from the root cause health issues. They must be addressed together.

Why You’re Still Struggling

Here’s the reality: You are likely living in more than one house. You may be “sofa surfing” through 2 or more, and this can feel confusing, overwhelming, and like nothing will ever work. The reason is you’re trying to apply one solution to a multi-layered problem.

Your Next Step: A Personalized Approach

I created the Rooted Wellness Assessment to stop the guessing because it isn’t working. No more generic protocols. Let's build one that's just for you. Inside this assessment, we identify your HIDDEN stressors, connect the dots between your symptoms, and create a personalized plan that actually fits your body and life. Even if your labs are “normal”, you’re already on HRT,  or you just want a more natural approach.

There is a reason you feel the way you do, and there is a way forward. You can learn more about the assessment session here. 

Optional: Going Deeper with DUTCH Testing

If you want deeper insight, we can layer in DUTCH hormone testing. This test goes beyond basic hormone levels and shows:

• How much are you producing?

• What’s actually available for use

• How your body is breaking down and clearing hormones

Because the truth is:  You can have “normal” hormone levels and still feel awful. What matters is how your body is using them. 

To conclude: This isn’t “just aging.” And it isn’t “JUST MENOPAUSE,” and this isn’t something you just have to push through. It’s not your fault that what you’ve tried hasn’t worked; you simply haven’t been given the right blueprint yet.

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